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Lilith (TTG)

we are extorted by our host unfortunately

eat the host, seize the means of production

blanka

do headmates pay rent using the tulpacoins they get after working in the tulpa oil fields?

@joocp - jump rent seeking is strictly prohibited by the party

what about taxes?

tbh to me comates sounds like tiptoing around the term "imaginary friends" (nothing wrong with the term imo)

Collectively we do more than our original does so they should have to pay rent to us

I do still like the idea of "generalizing" plurality/tulpamancy, but you can most easily do that by using the existing general t...

@Reisen - jump Sure. I prefer a label more specific than headmate, and I'm willing to try comate

what about taxes?

@joocp - jump we collect minimal taxes because capital gains are reinvested into society rather than hoarded by the capitalist class, comrade

host class

to lounge with those communists!

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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk

to lounge with those communists!

I, uh, I mean, meow! I'm a headmate

Alright let’s continue the party in longe

11:21 PM

Oh god I can’t spell

Dream | Shadow System

I do still like the idea of "generalizing" plurality/tulpamancy, but you can most easily do that by using the existing general t...

@Reisen - jump Sure. I prefer a label more specific than headmate, and I'm willing to try comate

I like and will use both, I think

We'll need the term headmates when I'm included in a group reference with the others!

Yeah we mostly use systemmate or headmate for ourselves

I am not a comate, I am a dæmon!

a dæmate even!

Hmm ^^

or you are just a dream

11:34 PM

You're not wrong by a stretch! I do represent the wonderland, which is really the dream world

Hii!! How can I help my tulpa to form opinions?

Zehel X403

Hii!! How can I help my tulpa to form opinions?

I assume you mean opinions that are different from you, right?

Kind of, anything is fine

Well

12:26 PM

A good way to form opinions to ask their opinion

12:26 PM

Like

12:26 PM

What is their name

Zehel X403

Kind of, anything is fine

Now, she doesn't give much of an opinion when I ask about something

12:27 PM

Kirara

So you go like

12:27 PM

Hey kirara

@Zehel X403

12:27 PM

Do you like red?

She probably says 'I don't know' or 'not much' or 'not sure' when I ask

Well

12:29 PM

Then shes not sure

Uhh...

12:29 PM

She does that for most of the thing

12:29 PM

And sometimes she won't be much responding

Uhh?

Sorry, I meant uhm..

12:30 PM

Ignore it, I'm dumb

12:32 PM

I do ask her opinion on things but she doesn't give much of an opinion. Should I just keep asking?

Well, if she doesnt have a strong opinion about things thats not really a bad thing

I didn't mean that it is a bad thing

12:36 PM

I was just confused that is it bc she is still developing

12:37 PM

Or that is part of the way she is

Could be either

12:37 PM

How old is she

She said three and a half months

How long have you been developing her

Almost like 6 months or something

12:39 PM

I think more than 6

Ah

12:39 PM

Well

12:39 PM

Unsure exactly how to help you but thats about how mine was

12:40 PM

The only tips i can give you that helped me is that you shouldnt overthink who is speaking

12:40 PM

You can just assume its her if you want to

12:40 PM

Even a few years in, whev we arent sure we just assign the thought to whoever makes sense

berockly (TTG)

You can just assume its her if you want to

This never really clicked for me until 5-6 months in

Okay

12:41 PM

Thank you!!

berockly (TTG)

This never really clicked for me until 5-6 months in

No matter how many times people told me

Zehel X403

I do ask her opinion on things but she doesn't give much of an opinion. Should I just keep asking?

It may be helpful to have an exploration approach rather than ask for her opinions. Instead of asking her for her favorite color, go ahead and show her different colors and see how she reacts. Pretty much any ice breaker question can be turned into a learning opportunity!

it might sound weird, but do you personally have a problem with forming opinions x403?

12:55 PM

Asking because some people do

12:56 PM

and that can be inherited by their tulpa

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk

it might sound weird, but do you personally have a problem with forming opinions x403?

I do have opinions but I don't usually say it openly to people

ok

you can do something together and ask if it was fun or not

do you think your tulpa could be just not willing to share her opinions with you like you don’t share yours with pther people (edited)

experience forms opinions

A long kiss goodnight

It may be helpful to have an exploration approach rather than ask for her opinions. Instead of asking her for her favorite color, go ahead and show her different colors and see how she reacts. Pretty much any ice breaker question can be turned into a learning opportunity!

Sometimes I do that

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk

do you think your tulpa could be just not willing to share her opinions with you like you don’t share yours with pther people (edited)

But I do share my opinion with her

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Because she's an older tulpa, leading the exploration process may be more satisfying to her

Idk, she has this habit of making me bring up topics for conversations

Because she's an older tulpa, leading the exploration process may be more satisfying to her

@`Moltosha | Shadow System (@A long kiss goodnight) - jump I'm envisioning it as, "hmm, I didn't think of that" and going from there

I remember feeling a bit flustered when I was proposed the exploration advice. I like Moltosha's idea

can you switch? maybe it helps if you let her look around and do something by herself

1:04 PM

its easier to think about stuff when you're in the front anyways so maybe it helps opinions form better

Nope, not yet But we're going to try today again

i personally feel a bit like a robot when im switched out

1:04 PM

i dont say much or just respond with obvious things

1:05 PM

its the other way around for us too

Thank you everyone!!

Good luck

aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae

can you switch? maybe it helps if you let her look around and do something by herself

what is switching

does anyone find that doing something competitive like playing chess with their tulpa improves their skill?

It personally just tires us out. We’re all the same skill-level, so I don’t see how it would help us improve faster than if we went up against a bot or a real player.

Iota ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗

It personally just tires us out. We’re all the same skill-level, so I don’t see how it would help us improve faster than if we went up against a bot or a real player.

can u vividly see ur own tulpa like its actually there?

No

Iota ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗

No

do u know anyone who can

7:15 AM

coz thats a feat

I’ve heard of it, but I can’t give you specific names.

7:16 AM

Visual imposition like that doesn’t really impress or interest me all that much.

it does for me

7:19 AM

i wonder if their practice also lets them visually see other things? i can barely visualize things in my own mind without losing details or going fuzzy or having previous objects disappear when i add more objects

I assume that if they can visualize a tulpa as if it’s really physically present, other objects would be easier.

7:21 AM

It’s easier to imagine a cardboard box than a moving, feeling person, at least, I would think so.

7:21 AM

Our visualization is pretty good, but faces can be challenging at times regardless.